The Space Between Words
"In the most vital groups I studied, there was a recurring pattern — a kind of communal stillness. People paused. They waited. And in that waiting, something would open. Connection happened not despite the silence, but through it." — Daniel Coyle, Flourish I have sat across from clients in hundreds of coaching conversations and facilitation rooms across East and Central Africa. In every one of them, language has been the currency. We open with a check-in, contract the space, name the challenge, explore perspectives, and close with commitments. Words flow in, words flow out. And in that flow, we sometimes mistake productivity for transformation. But something has been quietly unsettling me. The practitioners whose work I most admire — and the scholars whose ideas have most stretched my own — keep arriving at the same unexpected threshold: silence. Joseph Jaworski, in Synchronicity, describes the moment of his deepest professional reorientation not in a boardroom or a seminar,...